Some of my readers have identified with Lance, sharing with me some issues with drinking they have dealt with. I am moved by their willingness to be open and share those challenges. I'm inspired by their courage and, likewise, encourage those debating on dealing with these obstacles to take that step.
Lance goes to his first meeting in Chapter 31.
Obviously, there are two sides to this discussion as well. It isn't always about the person who is drinking too much, but the partner who is living with it.
The friendship between Trent and Lance is still strong, but Lance's circle of friends is about to enlarge in new ways.
What are your thoughts on Lance? Do you think he has changed? If he was someone you knew, would you enjoy his company? Share your thoughts. Email or comment below.
This is an INCREDIBLE chapter. The fear of an AA meeting is so real. 26 years later, sometimes I still get nervous. Trent handled his father beautifully. Thank you.
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The best lines:
“I’m gay, Dad. Let me hear you say it.”
“He’s not a drug addict, is he ?”
“I couldn’t ask for a better friend. Well, one that didn’t have to go to an AA meeting could be a slight improvement.”
“I was hard. I was hot. I was gay.”
I was very moved by this chapter. First, because Trent's father is at least attempting to come to terms with his son being gay, and second, because I hope that Lance has finally turned the corner. Perhaps at one of the upcoming AA meetings, he will find the courage to stand up and share his story with the group.
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